It’s one of those things you’re sure to see: a woman who looks like her and she’s hot and she has that beautiful face and body, but she’s so damn sexy and she likes you.
And, as you’re sitting there with your laptop open and you’re waiting for her to come up and say hi, all you hear is her name, “Dee Dee.”
It’s like the movie “Hotel Rwanda” where the only thing that’s changed since the original is the name.
And so, yeah, you do feel the attraction.
You do feel her presence, because she’s an amazing person.
And you see that, and you just want to have sex with her.
But you don’t feel like it’s all about her.
It’s not like, Oh, I got a hot, black, beautiful woman here.
No, I don’t have a black woman here, but I’ve seen her many times, and I’m always like, oh, wow, this woman is beautiful, she has the most beautiful, wonderful, gorgeous body, and she is attractive to me, and then I have sex.
And that’s the thing.
You want to be attracted to this woman.
And she’s attractive to you, too, and when she does something that’s really attractive to both of you, then that’s what you want to do, right?
So, you know, you want this woman to be like, “Wow, that’s just amazing.
You are the most wonderful person.
I just want that.”
But if she’s not, you can tell that she’s just really uncomfortable and not comfortable.
But that’s OK.
You can just, you don, you’ll know what you’re going to do.
I’ll tell you something else.
You’ll know, like, if she wants to go on a date, you just can’t force it.
So you have to be in that situation, and if she doesn’t want to go, well, I’m not going to force it on her, and that’s fine.
But if you’re like, I need you to go.
That’s OK, too.
I can’t tell her to not go.
She’s going to be OK.
And if she goes, well okay, then, but you can’t do anything to force her to go because you want her to have fun.
So she doesn, you have a choice.
You have a responsibility to be with her, right, and be in this position where you can say, “No, I’ll be OK,” or, “I’m OK, I can take it,” and you can be like “No.”
That’s the difference.
I’m going to say this: if she likes me, she likes it, and no one will ever be the same person.
You’re never going to feel that same way again.
That doesn’t mean she’s going out with another man.
She has a great, great, amazing relationship with you.
She likes you and you like her, you get along with her and everything.
She loves you and she doesn.
She doesn’t like any of the other guys, and so she can be attracted, and there’s nothing wrong with that, right.
I mean, if there are two guys, one of them is really hot and the other one is really not, and the woman is not really interested in the other guy, and they go out, and it’s like, OK, that guy is hot, right; and then the other woman says, “Oh, she’s really not interested in me.
I want to date her.”
She just wants to see what she’s made of.
And the thing is, if the guy is really good, the woman might not be interested in him.
So it’s up to the woman, and really the only person who’s going see that is the guy who’s really good.
And it’s OK if that guy doesn’t work out, right: You have the option.
But I’m saying, you are going to have to, as the woman gets older, be with a man who works out, you’re not going, “Well, I want that guy to be good.
I don, I just don’t want him to be me.”
Because then you’re never the same woman.
The person who you used to be, it’s gone.
So if she can’t be with someone who works on his body and is healthy and can take care of himself, then he doesn’t have that woman to fall back on.
So that’s a real problem, I think.
And I know, for me, the most attractive thing about her is the body, the beautiful, amazing body.
And then if she says no, then you have the choice, OK.