You can’t be in a relationship if you’re not in touch with your feelings, and if you can’t feel them, it’s hard to make them.
But you can try to build relationships with others who are.
Here are some of the best ways to do this.
Emotional honesty If you can show others you’re feeling what they’re feeling, they will reciprocate.
“You’re going to feel differently,” says Emily Gullick, a psychology professor at the University of California, Los Angeles.
And they will understand.
“People are so emotional,” Gullack says.
“So they’re going do things that are going to make you feel better.”
So let’s say you’re dating a person who’s a good friend.
“I’m going to be honest with you about how much I love you and that I miss you,” she says, and you can then make a point to do the same with her, too.
“She’ll see it and she’ll understand,” Groll says.
And if she does, you can say, “Thank you for being the best friend you have.”
You might also try to be a good listener.
“There are a lot of ways that you can be a better listener than you would be if you just listened to everything,” says Gollick.
“And if you do that, you will get better at listening to other people.”
Communicate about what you need to do If you don’t feel the connection, you might find it difficult to keep going.
If you’re in a long relationship, this is especially true, because you’ll have to decide how much of your time you’ll devote to each other.
“What are you going to do with your time?
What are you not going to put into your relationships?” says Gullicks.
“If you don.
If your partner is a busybody, you may not feel as strongly about it.
And you might not want to spend time with your partner if you have a big workload.”
If you feel that way, talk to your partner about it first, and then see if you still feel like the same person.
If it’s too hard to keep up with all of the other people in your life, then you might have to stop dating and move on to something else.
Find ways to get closer if you want it In most relationships, it is important for you to be in touch regularly, and it’s important to be aware of when you need help or when you’re ready to go away.
But in the world of dating, sometimes you just can’t do it.
“That’s what you have to be able to do,” Gollicks says.
You might not know how to tell the difference between when you want to get together and when you don to a partner, she says.
So she recommends: “Don’t think, ‘Oh, I’m so in love.
I’m going on dates and stuff.
I don’t have to do anything.’
I want to go on dates with you. “
And then, when you really feel that close, she suggests, you should say, “‘I’m feeling it.
I want to go on dates with you.
I just need to find a way to get it over with.’
“This may not be the best approach for you, but you’ll likely get better results if you get more involved with your relationships and find a ways to connect more.